Dating

After a break, I’m now actively dating again to find the right partner.

This page will record my observations and POVs and advice for young men to hopefully help them not volunteer to make their lives exceptionally hard and chaotic by being with women they shouldn’t be with.

I believe that modern dating is one of the fastest ways to understand today’s social dynamics.

We were made to have a partner in life, not to be alone.

We were made to be sexual beings, for deep connection beyond physical touch.

Since separating with my son’s mom in Jan 2019, I’ve been in and out of dating.

My perspectives about modern dating and gender dynamics have changed a lot these past 7 years.

Stopped during covid, restarted 2021, stopped again in 2023, restarted very slowly and carefully in 2025 but now making it a top priority in 2026. 

Every single woman and man I know who are single think that modern dating is broken. It’s becoming comical and is an example of why we need God’s grace and to give ourselves grace.

We’re going to go through so much pain and be repeatedly disappointed along the way.

Just have to rely on humor to get through it all.

Ultimately, if we want to find the right partner, we need need to take dating seriously, adopt a no excuses attitude, level up where needed, master ourselves, master modern dating, and never give up.

Even after years of meeting people who turn out aren’t the right fit, we owe it to ourselves as men to keep going.

Keep searching for the woman we were made for.

She’s out there somewhere.

I’ve played the numbers game, but at the end of the day realized that destiny truly exists, and it distorts the fabric of space and time. It applies to finding a romantic partner too, so we have to truly believe and follow the signs.